I forgot to add this bit to New Gold Dream

If you want to know something about the person you’re dating/married to, take them out to dinner and have them deal with the waiter/waitstaff. How they treat people in such situations is a good indication of who they are when the “shields” are down.

read it and weep
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Golden Gate Bridge in Color Orchids DSCF0048 thecrossing DSCF0042 At the Top San Francisco at Dusk DSCF0066 Golden Gate Bridge 3